deep questions for your friends
these 45 questions are for when the chat is ready for more than memes.
they're personal without being heavy, the kind that get real answers and usually a story or two.
ask one at a time, answer it yourself first, and give people room to take their time.
how to play it in your group chat
- post one question and answer it yourself first. it makes it easier for everyone else.
- one question a night is plenty. these land better slow.
- reply to the answers, not just the question. that is where the good stuff is.
45 deep questions
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What's something you're currently trying to figure out?
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What's an experience that changed how you see people?
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What's the last thing that genuinely surprised you?
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What's the last thing you changed your mind about?
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What's a moment where your friendships with this group really clicked, a moment that made you think how grateful you were for them?
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What's a decision you made that seemed small at the time but turned out big?
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What's a place you've been that still feels unreal to think about?
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What's a song that perfectly scores a specific part of your life?
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What's a compliment you've been given that you still think about?
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What's something about you that's harder to explain than it sounds?
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What's one thing you genuinely look forward to every week?
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What's something you've quietly been proud of this year?
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What's a feature you'd add to your own brain if you could?
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What's a word or phrase that you've been overusing lately?
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What's something you wish you'd done sooner?
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What's the most unexpected thing you've gotten into recently?
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What's your vision of a "perfect day"?
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What's an opinion you'll defend forever?
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What's a thing from childhood that still shapes how you are today?
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What's something you used to be embarrassed about that you're fine with now?
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What's something you've learned about yourself from how you act around other people?
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What's a question you think about more than you probably should?
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What would your perfect birthday look like?
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Describe your perfect Saturday in one sentence.
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What's a childhood toy or game you still think about?
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What's a hobby you want to try but haven't yet?
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What's a phrase or saying from your family or friends that stuck with you?
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What's something you've gotten way better at because you had no choice?
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What's a piece of art, song, or film that hit you harder than you expected?
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What's a thing you'd happily do every single day?
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What's the best piece of advice you've actually followed?
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What's a tradition you want to keep for the rest of your life?
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What's something you'd tell your 12-year-old self?
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What's a place you visited once and want to go back to?
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What's a topic you could talk about forever?
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What's something you thought you'd hate but ended up loving?
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What's one thing about yourself that surprised you this year?
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What's a skill you picked up from a really unexpected source?
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If you had to teach a class on one thing, what would it be?
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What's a talent you wish you had?
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What's one rule you actually live by?
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What's the wallpaper on your phone right now?
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What's the most ambitious thing on your bucket list?
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What's a memory from last summer?
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What would the title of your memoir be?
play one of these with your friends every day
truelike drops one question a day to your private circle of up to 12 friends. everyone answers on their own, and the answers stay hidden until the reveal, which takes at least 2 people. only your circle sees them.
free on iPhone and Android, no ads, no in-app purchases, 13+. a friend with your invite link can even answer today's question in their browser.
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